Sacred Relationships

My friends and I are always discussing relationships and how we are so disappointed with what was going on in them. Marriages are ending fasting than the reality shows that depict them. While we are living in different times and the energy of the planet is shifting to the feminine Goddess energy, we still need to go back to the basics from our ancestors and find what worked then.

Families have been broken for years. From slavery and the holocaust to world wars and terrorism. Where it all began or how it all began is questionable however it did not start yesterday. There is a disturbing battle going on. The war between men and women. Both sides blaming each other for the reason why they are the way that they are. Single parent mothers blaming their children's fathers for having to raise children on their own and single men blaming their single parent mothers for growing up in a fatherless home and not having a male role model, as for the reason they treat women the way that they do. The fact of the matter is, both sides have lost their way and both sides are to blame.

There was a time when women were treated like Queens and Goddesses and men were treated like Kings and Gods. Men and women were equal. Men looked to their wives for counsel on some strong decisions and women supported their men along their journeys. This was accepted. Today our men and women are caught up in the physical aspect of the relationship that they have neglected the spiritual aspect in building and maintaining a relationship. We have gotten away from allowing our spiritual selves to guide us to our life mate that we end up with the "Seasonal" mate. The mate that is the right now but not the mate that is the right one. Relationships aren't sacred anymore as they once were with our ancestors.

Many men and women feel a familiarity of what they desire in a mate but don't know how to go about obtaining that mate. Through the years, more and more women are earning more than men and becoming more independent. This independence, this confidence builder, sends out a confusing signal through the universe to our men. The man who is not yet ready to support a woman like this on any level, receives the signal because this is a woman he is looking for and they mate. But because he is doesn't know what he is doing or WHO he mated with, he is unable to support her on her journey and the relationship ends. A friend of mine quoted a gentlemen speaking to another gentlemen about the way he was dancing with this woman that I think speaks volumes about this very statement. He said "You looked the part, the leading man and the Goddess ready to be worshipped but then got entangled in the Goddess and forgot what the hell you were doing." Women can have that affect on men but the focus must remain. Some men are so entangled with the beauty that the "relationship" part of the relationship suffers. Until men and women start seeing each other for WHO they really are and start respecting each other as such, sacred relationships will be lost.

Another scenario might be that a man who has it together and has reached a level to where he is ready to take on his Queen, finds a woman with great potential. This Queen, may not have realized where she is on her journey or is just beginning the journey but needs the love and support to get her through it. Not knowing HOW to support her on her journey, he gets frustrated, problems arise and the relationship ends. Relationships are no longer holistic and sacred. A relationship should be built on the mental, emotional, physical and the spiritual for it to be holistic. Whether we want to admit it or not, we make decisions based on the physical because of what appeals to us. it could be that the person has a great career ahead them, or has nice abs. Yes, appearance counts and I would be lying if I said that it didn't matter what a person looked like. However, after the novelty of if all wears off, what are you left with? Two spirits that come together sexually will form a union whether the people involved know it or not. That spiritual connection that bonds the two people together is stronger than glue. That's why it can often be difficult to physically leave a person once the relationship has ended. 

Finding that "Soul Mate" can be a lot easier if people allowed themselves to be guided by their spirit and truly trusted that guidance. I could go on for days with this topic. I have so much more to offer however I do teach workshops on the subject.

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